What Makes A Soul Food Thanksgiving Dinner?
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Growing up in the South in Virginia, I knew Thanksgiving before I ever knew how to define it.
It sounded like the O’Jays, Luther Vandross, the Temptations, Stephanie Mills, Anita Baker, and Earth, Wind & Fire playing while family filled the house. It smelled like sweet potato pie, collard greens, and a well-seasoned turkey. And it felt like laughter, anticipation, cousins, friends, and everybody coming together around the table. That’s what a soul food Thanksgiving still means to me.
Yes, there are dishes I expect to see. But a soul food Thanksgiving isn’t defined by a checklist of Southern recipes. Instead, it’s the traditions, techniques, seasoning, memories, and people that turn those dishes into our table.
And Beautiful Soul, the difference really is in the seasoning. Periodt.
What foods are served at a soul food Thanksgiving?
On my Thanksgiving table, you’ll usually find:
- Turkey
- Cornbread dressing
- Homemade cranberry sauce
- Baked macaroni and cheese
- Collard greens
- Candied yams
- Potato salad
- Sweet potato pie
- Banana pudding
Now, every Black family’s Thanksgiving table is its own. That’s part of the beauty of it. Your family’s must-have might not be mine.
But at my house? Collard greens, candied yams, and homemade dressing are non-negotiable.
And apparently so is potato salad, according to The Mister and my son! By the time I get to making it, I’m usually tired, so if my daughter is around, I’m putting her to work peeling potatoes, dicing celery and onion, and measuring seasonings.
That’s family tradition, too: everybody has a job!
🥄 Shaunda says: The turkey is Beyoncé, but the sides are New Edition
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The turkey is Beyoncé in Destiny’s Child.
She’s the lead, and everybody knows why she’s there. My signature Thanksgiving turkey earns her top billing, too. I bake it in my apple cider marinade, so it’s tender, juicy, flavorful, and seasoned.
But nobody showed up to see Beyoncé standing onstage by herself at a Destiny’s Child concert… We came for the group! So, if Thanksgiving were the brief five-member Destiny’s Child era, give me turkey, dressing, cranberry sauce, collard greens, and candied yams.
If I can only have the iconic trio—Beyoncé, Kelly, and Michelle—I’m taking: Turkey + dressing + cranberry sauce.
But if we’re talking about who might actually steal the Thanksgiving show?
Now we’re talking New Edition—NE Heartbreak Tour. That’s THE SIDES. All those SIDES showing up with choreography, costume changes, and something to prove!
And it’s not uncommon for a Black Thanksgiving table to have five, six, seven—or more—side dishes. Mac and cheese. Dressing. Greens. Yams. Potato salad. Green beans. The turkey may announce Thanksgiving. But the sides make the plate.
Why soul food Thanksgiving tastes different
If you ask me what separates a soul food Thanksgiving from a Southern Thanksgiving, my answer is simple: The difference is all in the seasoning. Periodt.
Soul food doesn’t ask one ingredient to carry the entire dish.
We season the turkey. We season the mac and cheese. (Yes, SEASON yo’ mac and cheese!)
The dressing should be moist, seasoned, and flavorful. The greens should have a seasoned pot likker worthy of the greens sitting in it. The candied yams need spices and the right balance of savory and sweet. And sweet potato pie? Spiced. Just. Right.
Seasoning isn’t something we sprinkle on at the end and hope for the best. It’s part of how the dish is built.
And then there’s green bean casserole…
Here’s one place where my soul food Thanksgiving and the broader Southern Thanksgiving table can part ways.
Black folks are far more likely, in my experience, to serve seasoned green beans than green bean casserole. And I have a theory about our beef with that casserole.
The classic version built much of its flavor identity around canned creamy soup and crunchy fried onions. But it didn’t necessarily season the green beans themselves to make them flavorful. Beautiful Soul… That contradicts everything soul food seasoning stands on!
I want flavor built into the food, not simply sitting around it. That’s the distinction.
Why Black folks cook it this way
Why do Black Folks cook Thanksgiving this way?
The soul food Thanksgiving table carries African American culinary traditions forward, but the table isn’t frozen in time. And my own table proves that…
The smells still take me back to Thanksgiving in my mom’s kitchen and memories of my Grandma Leora’s kitchen. Sweet potato pie remains the iconic, anchoring family dessert for me. Its legacy is something I feel responsible for protecting.
But my Thanksgiving table isn’t identical to the one I grew up eating.
We didn’t traditionally have baked mac and cheese. Now at my table, it’s a non-negotiable. We had dressing, but it wasn’t homemade. After making my own cornbread dressing year after year, I no longer have a palate for boxed dressing. (Sorry, not sorry.)
Today, my apple cider turkey is one of my signature contributions to the family table. She’s a show-stopper! But that’s how food traditions live. We preserve what matters. We add what becomes ours. And eventually, the things we make become somebody else’s food memories.
👩🏾🍳 Make It Your Way: modernize the method, not the soul
This is one of the biggest ideas behind The Soul Food Pot®: I will Instant Pot a Thanksgiving dinner within an inch of its life! And yes—Instant Pot is a verb in my kitchen.
I’ll use my air fryer. My air fryer oven. My pressure cooker. If there’s a modern appliance that helps me get Thanksgiving dinner onto the table more efficiently, I want to know what it can do! I’ve even made a soul food Thanksgiving dinner in about four hours.
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But here’s the line I don’t cross: Modernizing the method should never mean sacrificing the flava.
That’s why Make-It-Your-Way matters. Maybe you cook your collard greens on the stovetop. Maybe I pressure-cook mine. The appliance isn’t the tradition. The flavor, technique, intention, and food we recognize when it reaches the table—that’s what we’re protecting.
How do you build a soul food Thanksgiving plate?
People are going to tell you there are rules about what should go beside what. Not over here. So, what do I put on my Thanksgiving plate? EVERYTHING! No particular order required. And yes, I’m coming back for seconds. Probably thirds. And I’m absolutely eating the leftover sides.
Because I’m from coastal Virginia, I also have a special place in my heart for oyster dressing. Liver dressing is another favorite.
Your own Thanksgiving plate should tell your family’s story. That’s why I don’t believe there’s one universal soul food Thanksgiving menu. There are classics. There are traditions. And then there are your people’s traditions. Those matter, too.
What desserts belong at a soul food Thanksgiving?
For me, sweet potato pie is essential.
It’s more than dessert on my Thanksgiving table. It’s an anchoring food memory—one of those dishes where flavor and family history become almost impossible to separate.
And I expect banana pudding on Thanksgiving Day, too. Peach cobbler and pecan pie? Beautiful bonuses! But if you’re asking me which dessert I would protect first? The sweet potato pie stays.
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You know it’s a soul food Thanksgiving when…
You hear loud laughter. Loud talking. Somebody starts singing. Somebody else starts dancing. And somehow this is all happening… at the dinner table!
There’s probably a bangin’ playlist within earshot of the food, too. Because Black folks employ rhythm and harmony into everything that’s GOOD! The music, the conversation, the food, the people—they aren’t separate pieces of Thanksgiving to me. Together, they’re the experience.
❤️ Why I make it this way
Why I make Thanksgiving this way: The Soul Food Pot® is, in many ways, my time capsule. It’s my recollection of the best-tasting and most nostalgic soul food tastes and feelings of my life, preserved and presented one recipe at a time.
Some recipes came from what I remember. Some came from what I wanted to make better. And some use cooking methods my Grandma Leora or Great Grandma Florence never had available to them.
But I’m always chasing the same thing: That taste. That feeling. That knowing. The moment you take a bite and think: Yes. That’s what this is supposed to taste like.
That’s why I document the techniques. Why I test the shortcuts. Why I tell you when the seasoning matters, when the texture matters, and when you can absolutely pull out the Instant Pot!
I’ve already thought this through so you don’t have to.™
Because we’re not just getting Thanksgiving dinner onto the table. We’re keeping the table going.
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